Who is My Ideal Client Avatar?
When I first started coaching solopreneurs, I made the same mistake many of us do—I tried to help everyone. I stretched myself too thin, worked with clients who weren’t aligned, and diluted my marketing message.
It wasn’t until I got laser-focused on who I actually wanted to serve that everything clicked.
You, too, can find this clarity by asking yourself five simple but powerful questions. I learned these questions from Allan Dib, author of The 1-Page Marketing Plan and guest on episode 250 of the Gratitude Geek Podcast.
It’s not just about who wants your service—it’s about who will win with it.
If you’re tired of feeling scattered in your marketing, these five questions will help you identify your ideal client avatar.
And yes, I’ve used them myself to define who I love working with: purpose-driven female solopreneurs who want to build authentic, lasting relationships with clients, colleagues and community.
What Industry Do You Have Experience In?
Your past experience is your superpower.
Lean into what you know
When I pivoted into coaching, I leaned into 30 years of marketing experience. I didn’t try to serve tech startups or corporate HR departments—I focused on the small business space I already knew and loved. You’ll find more traction when you serve industries you’ve worked in or are deeply familiar with. Your insight becomes your authority.
What Are You Interested In?
You’re going to spend a lot of time building this business—so you’d better enjoy the company.
Follow your curiosity
I’ve always been curious about personal development, storytelling, and how gratitude impacts business growth. That natural interest became the foundation of Gratitude Geek Podcast and my coaching approach.
If you’re passionate about wellness, sustainability, or handmade products, trust that those interests can guide your niche.

Who Do You Enjoy Working With?
Joy is a business strategy.
Build a business around your favorite people
For me, it’s solopreneurs who love collaboration. Women who want to mastermind, share resources, and grow together. I get energized working with those kinds of clients.
Ask yourself: Who do you actually enjoy collaborating with? Gym owners? Creatives? Coaches? It matters more than you think.
Joy is a business strategy.
Who Can You Get Results For?
Results build referrals—and referrals build sustainable businesses.
Combine your strengths with their needs
I’ve had the best outcomes with micropreneurs who are coachable and tech-curious. My systems resonate with them because I speak their language.
Think about who’s most likely to benefit from your expertise. It’s not just about who wants your service—it’s about who will win with it.
Do They Have a High Lifetime Value?
Let’s talk about the money.
Don’t skip the financial reality check
Working with someone you love and who can invest in long-term support? That’s the sweet spot.
I’ve learned that virtual business owners with scalable offerings (like memberships) often bring more long-term value than one-off service providers.
Don’t just look at what they can pay today—think long-term.
You Deserve Clients Who Energize You
These five questions from Allan Dib changed the way I think about my business—and my clients. The truth is, clarity brings confidence. When you know who you’re talking to, you can market more authentically, serve more deeply, and build a business that feels like home.
For more insights, check out Allan Dib’s interview on episode 250 of the Gratitude Geek Podcast!
If you’re ready to explore your own ideal client avatar and build a gratitude-infused business that fits your lifestyle, join me in Robusta, Small Business Percolator. It’s where smart, groovy solopreneurs gather to connect, learn, and grow together.

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